December 14, 2006 10:42 - 14 Hot First Dates In 47 Days With The Power Of Online Dating
"How A Pasty White Computer Nerd Got 14 Hot First Dates In 47 Days With The Power Of Online Dating"How To Use This Guide.
This is the first post of a thirty day series check back every day!
The best advice I can give you is to read everything over once. If you can, do it day, then re read it again. Then, read the sections again that you are not sure about, and if you can, get someone else to read it as well, and both of you make notes.
There will be plenty of website links in this book so it probably is best to read this book while you are online so you can see exactly what I'm talking about through out the book.
What This Guide Is About And Who It's For
I hope by the time you finish this book you will realise just how powerful this information is. This is not some rehashed dating manual which spews out bad information that will HURT your chances of dating successfully.
This book isn't written by a prolific writer who's job it is to churn out books by the dozen which he has no expertise on, it's written by a guy who struggled for years to realise exactly what it is that turns women on and off.
This book is for all the guys out there who are sick of being told "I just want to be friends" or "you're a really nice guy but It's just not the right time in my life for a relationship" and about one hundred other excuses I've heard over and over again.
This book doesn't just cover Internet dating, it covers all the aspects of what make men successful with women.
Internet dating has made meeting beautiful women so much easier, hence why I've been using it for the last 2 years with great success.
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December 15, 2006 08:06 - Part 2- Why Internet Dating? 14 Hot First Dates In 47 Days With The Power Of Online Dating.
Why Internet Dating?I get asked this question all the time. Why use Internet dating over any other method of meeting women?
I mean, there are hundreds of ways to meet women and they are all great and have their advantages.
Speed dating
Singles events
Through friends
Offline dating agencies
Personal ads
In bars and nightclubs
Taking courses at local colleges
And the list goes on and on.....
BUT
Internet dating is KING and here is why.
It's cheap
It's quick
It's fun
It's simple to use
There are thousands of women in your area now online
And the biggest reason of all, IT'S A GREAT PLACE TO LEARN WITHOUT THE FEAR OF FACE TO FACE REJECTION!
Like it or not, rejection is part of the dating process, even the hottest most successful guys with dating get rejected more times then they hear a yes.
In someways dating is a numbers game, but most men have TERRIBLE odds when it comes to dating. My job in this book is to lower the odds for you and make you more successful with the type of women you want to date.....
and I know you're busy, that's why Internet dating is great. Put up a profile, tweak it a bit until it sounds good and away you go. It's your own automated dating machine thats up 24/7 attracting women around the clock.
You don't have to be attractive, rich or anything like that. In fact, the guys I know who are most successful with women don't have a lot of money and they are just average looking men, nothing special about them, except they know what women want, they behave and hold themselves in ways women find attractive.
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December 16, 2006 10:24 - Part 3 14 Hot First Dates In 47 Days With The Power Of Online Dating
My StoryI'm a skinny guy, bout 6'3, by no means ugly, but by no means a bulging muscle bound model.
I've always been a little shy, which is fine, always been a little awkward in social situations, never had much confidence in myself around women.
I had NO luck with dating. When I was sixteen I got lucky and landed a girlfriend, and we were together for three years, but after that, I went three years without even one date. Partly because I was consumed with work and partly because I was turning women off with the way I acted around them.
But about two years ago I got fed up with being dateless and looking around and seeing UGLY guys with girlfriends and in most cases HOT girls. I thought if these guys are meeting these women and they're not rich, successful or even good looking, I must be doing something wrong.
What these guys had that I didn't have was the right attitude, the right frame of mind, and I get into this in the next chapter.
So I learned everything I could about women, psychology, what makes women attracted to certain types of guys and I even read a book called "sperm wars" which is all about evolution.
I now am able to meet, talk to and date beautiful women like it's the easiest thing in the world to do, and the only thing that changed about me was my attitude and the skills and knowledge I learnt from making lots of mistakes.
I didn't get more attractive, I didn't become mega rich, I just learnt to be what women want.
Note: As Susie and Otto Collins state in their book The Relationship Attractor Factor, our friend here finally decided what he didn't want. (To be alone) He decided what he did want. (A beautiful woman.)
Then he became more confident in himself, which allowed him to focus more on other people. Just paying attention to another persons needs, can make one very attractive to that person.
Read more about The Relationshop Attractor Factor at Christian Relationship Advice.
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December 17, 2006 10:19 - Part 4 - 14 Hot First Dates In 47 Days With The Power Of Online Dating
Chapter 2 - Step 1: Understanding The Law Of Attraction!For women attraction isn't a choice, they either feel it for you or they don't, it's that simple. If a woman doesn't feel attraction for you from the start, they more then likely never will.
You cannot convince a woman to feel attraction for you. Let me explain,
Just because you're rich, attractive, successful, drive a nice car, take her to fancy dinners, buy her expensive things, that won't make her feel attraction for you.
I know, it's not logical I get it, but women don't choose mates on logic. They might say they do, but they don't.
Women choose mates by their level of attraction they have for them (unless they are money hungry women after you for only your wallet) and not for what you can give them in return.
Men seem to think bribing women with gifts will make them fall in love with you, but it has the total opposite effect, women see this as you needing their approval because you don't think you are worthy enough to date them without having to buy them things in return.
Why do you think so many women get into relationships with bad boys who treat them terribly? Because these guys trigger an attraction inside these women. It's not logical, I know, but it's a fact.
I'm not saying you have to treat women terribly to make them feel attraction for you, but you don't have to cater to a womans every need.
Women would rather date a poor guy with no money who's charming, funny, cocky and just a fun date then a guy who's rich, buys them things and is stuffy and boring.
Women want what women want and you can either be what they want or be what they don't want, it's your choice.
This book isn't about changing you to suit women, it's about showing you that you don't need to do all these things to make women attracted to you, you don't need to bribe them, you don't need to stress if one woman doesn't like you, this is your life, you choose who you date, not the other way around.
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