December 26, 2006 18:42 - Part - 12 - 14 Hot First Dates In 47 Days With The Power Of Online Dating
Chapter 4 - Step 3
How To Write A Killer Online Dating Profile With Samples!The MOST IMPORTANT aspect of any successful Internet dating venture is your online profile. Personally, I use 2 profiles to attract dates.
The bad boy profile which attracts a certain more wilder person, and the nice guy profile that attracts the nice girls you would be proud to bring home to mother.
Feel free to steal and change these profiles. What ever you do, don't just copy them as they are, it would look stupid seeing hundreds of profiles online exactly the same, and besides, you really should put your own personality into it, as this profile is about you and not about me.
Of course, you can use them as is if you want, but you will get better results if you tweak them to suit your personality.
If you are the more cocky and confident person, use the "bad boy" profile, but make sure you are the same person online as you are offline or it will be a waste of time.
You must also have a photo on your profile! If they give you room to put up more then one photo, don't do it, just put one good photo up of you.
The Bad Boy Profile
Intro: Top 10 ways to scare any guy off, including me, inside
Interests:
Music: Dance, trance, house, you know what I'm talking about. Ministry of sound etc. I also watch Video Hits, so you can rest assure that I'm up to date with every new rappers name and criminal record.
Reading: I read anything I can get my hands on. I run a publishing company, so I get paid to read.
Movies: Comedies! Love a good comedy. Teen comedies. Also anything set in the 18th and 19th century like Hornblower, Napoleon and boring crap like that. James bond!
Sport: I play professional cricket and basketball/league for fun. Like extreme sports and paintball. No, not laser skirmish, ugh. Yes, I'm going to list going to the gym because I ACTUALLY do it.
Other interests: Sitting in my hottub looking out over the city listening to dance music. Love to travel, spent 6 months living in Spain and 2 years living in Perth. Cars, imports (supra's!) and SUV's.
Profile Body:
10. Tell him that he looks like your father
9. Tell him that he looks like your mother
8. Talk about your doll collection in third person
7. Talk about your recent hernia operation
6. Showing him the hernia in a jar
5. Confessing your love for hitler on the first date. You should wait at least 2 or 3 dates for that one.
4. Talk about your co workers annoying habits while pinching food off his plate.
3. Talk about children and marriage on the first date.
2. Say you look nothing like your photo after you sent him a photo of imogen bailey
1. Last but not least, never say "I've seen bigger" about any part of his body
Now if you promise not to talk about these things send me an email. Be warned I'm not looking for pen pals. I'm too much fun to be around to just leave it at writing emails.
Next week I'll list the top 10 things guys don't want to hear women say, including my favorite, "That's not the way my ex did it".
Relationship sought: Short-term or Long-term Relationship with a Female
Ideal partner:
Between 18 and 45 years old
Incredibly intelligent and amazingly beautiful. Someone who finds my jokes funny is a plus. No stalkers or clingy people please, I'm not sure what I'm looking for, but I know its not that. Someone who believes anything in life is possible, because it is!
Continued Tomorrow with The Nice Guy Online dating Profile!
In the mean time take a look at the following online dating profile helpers!
Relationship Atttractor Factor
White Smoke Dating Profile Software.
Free Writing Prompt Software.
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December 27, 2006 18:33 - Part 13 - 14 Hot First Dates In 47 Days With The Power Of Online Dating
The Nice Guy ProfileIntro: New to the scene.....
Interests:
Music: Most types, whatever is good at the time
Reading: Horror, Drama
Movies: Horror, Comedy, Drama
Sport: Swimming, Tennis, Rugby
Other interests: Art
Profile Body:
I'm an easy going nice guy, trying to find the right person, I enjoy intellectual conversations, late night beach walks, clubbing, music of most types, reading, tennis and swimming, among other things. Love pets, dogs and cats mainly, so you would need to be an animal lover.
I might party hard, but I also enjoy quiet nights at home watching a DVD, or doing things that couples do in their own private space.
With that said, I'm the type of guy of both extremes, so finding someone willing to spend quality time with has been more difficult then first thought, hence signing up with this site, hopefully it works out well???
Relationship sought: Short-term or Long-term Relationship with a Male or Female
Ideal partner:
Between 18 and 35 years old
I'm looking for someone who is understanding, uses common sense, someone who is confident in themself and knows where they're going in life, and are happy with that direction. Age doesn't mean that much to me, as long as there is a connection, building rapport between one another is important.
A Profile For The Older Gent Or Men Who Want To Attract Younger Women
Intro: A stick insect walks into a bar...
Interests:
Music: club mixes, trance, ministry of sound stuff and old stuff , rolling stones, acdc, 80's. Fav track at the moment is scott bond vs solarstone 3rd earth remix.
Reading: yes, i can read. that's why i buy those magazines, for the articles. Not the pictures, i swear.
Movies: lord of the rings trilogy, matrix..first two, third was...disappointing. arthouse. subtitles don't scare me and we've already established that i can read. Currently hooked on Asian martial arts movies tho the only thing i know about 'kung fu' is how to spell it.
Sport: Not so much sport as fitness, gym, bike, run, kayak, ill have a go at most things. Also follow motorsport (mostly bikes) and golf. And, in a reversal of male / female stereotypes, you go to the footy, I'll stay home and watch the grass grow.
Other interests: many and varied. you should ask me.
Profile Body:
I figure talking to yourself is acceptable but talking to yourself in a pirates voice probably isn't. I started doing that today and i figure i need to get out more and meet some people before i topple over the brink into complete madness. Don't be alarmed thou, all the sharp utensils are under lock and key.
OK, i realise this profile tends more toward the humourous rather than the serious which i guess is indicative of my personality so here are some details which might help to round out the picture.
I work as a paid firefighter, a job i love and have been doing for over 155 years. Days off are spent keeping fit, reading, going to the movies, riding bikes...both mountain and motor and, of course, looking for my favourite hat.
I have a large family whom i see fairly often but not often enough. I grew up in the country (or should i say i got older in the country) but, after 20 years in melbourne, any trace of the "country boy" is well and truely gone.
Whilst I have your attention, can you please be who, and what, you say you are in your profile.
Ideal partner:
Between 25 and 42 years old , at most 5'7"/170 cm from AUSTRALIA
Hmmmmmm, Fit, fun, confident, adventurous, young or young at heart and can tell me where i left my favourite hat. It's gotta be around here somewhere. Oh, on the off chance you do feel sufficiently inspired to send me a kiss, please include your photo password if applicable ;-)
Continued Tomorrow
In the mean time take a look at the following online dating profile helpers!
Relationship Atttractor Factor
White Smoke Dating Profile Software.
Free Writing Prompt Software.
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December 28, 2006 19:43 - Part 14 - 14 Hot First Dates In 47 Days With The Power Of Online Dating
Chapter 5 - Step 4: Learn To Write Effective Email FollowupsOk, so you're online, you're searching for profiles of other women and you find a few you want to email, what next?
The first email is crucial. You have to remember, women are getting sometimes hundreds of emails a day, so you have to stand out straight away!
Just like in marketing, your headline should be
eye grabbing!
The best way to do this is to mention something about her profile in your headline. I've made the mistake of writing things like "hey there" in the subject heading and it's really not a good idea.
If in the photo she puts on her profile, she's wearing something unique comment on it.
Example Subject Headings
Where did you get that necklace from?
I don't think you're going to like me....
That top you are wearing is....
You're lucky I emailed you!
etc....
Things like that get a womans attention when she's reading her email.
Thats the first mistake most people make, the second one is they write too much in their first email! They write a whole life story. Just keep it short and sweet.
Here is an example first email I use.
Heya,
If you want to have an enthralling chat/get to know me better my msn address is myemailaddress@here.com so that's the place to do it, or even better, over a coffee or 3 :) I live in Robertson, near sunnybank plaza/garden city.
I'm off to try and find a place that does a decent oysters kilpatrick, so have a good night.
Cheers
your name, your profile id name
P.S. make a funny comment here about her profile/suggest if she doesn't have msn to either download it or buy you a beer and meet up instead.
Notice I don't try and get an email relationship happening, you need to hook your date quickly.
You need to get from one step to the other quickly.
If she emails you back and says she doesn't have msn or any instant chat device, ask her for her phone number.
It's that simple. Don't become email buddies!
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December 30, 2006 04:00 - Part 15 - 14 Hot First Dates In 47 Days With The Power Of Online Dating
Chapter 6 - Step 5: Learn How To Use Instant Messaging With SuccessOk, so you've got the girl on msn or ICQ or whatever you want to use, what next?
Chatting online is the best way to work on chatting to women without the fear of being nervous or making a fool of yourself in public. Just have fun and go with the flow.
Don't bog the conversation down with general chit chat. Talking about the weather, what she does for a living are things you can talk about when you're dating.
The idea of chatting online is to get the girls phone number and move to the next step.
Here is a sample conversation I had with a girl very recently after moving her from email to msn....
Me: hey stinky, how goes it
Her: I do not stink
Her: I'm good, feelin better
Her: And u?
Me: Much better
Me: So when are you going to buy me that coffee?
Me: I'm busy this weekend and I want to make sure you are completely over your cold so you don't infect me by sitting to close to me.
Her: hahah, I won't infect you promise!
Me: Give me your cell # and I'll give you a call when I'm not busy, I want to make sure you're really not a 59 year old man, who's overweight.
Her: Oh yah, because being overweight would make all the difference.
Me: Stop stalling and give me the digits.... :P
Her: Ok, (number here), just don't stalk me.
Me: No worries about that, it's my week off. No way, gotta run, I'll ring you when I'm free.
And that is how it's done my friends.
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